This is not my usual post.

Many people have had to and still are dealing with devastating illnesses in their family. There are many illnesses that have devastating effects on daily existence, finances, as well as the lives of extended family members.
At the beginning of this year I was reflecting on the fact that my immediate family had not been effected by cancer for a number of years. Then it was extended family that has gone through the pain and heart
ache of a
devastating illness. Little did I know that was about to change.
Cancer /ˈ
kænsər/ is a class of diseases in which a group of cells display uncontrolled growth, invasion, intrusion on and destruction of adjacent tissues, and sometimes spread to other locations in the body via lymph or blood. These three malignant properties of cancers differentiate them from benign tumors, which are self-limited, and do not invade or metastasize. Most cancers form a tumor.
I believe cancer is the worse kind of illness to have........... It Sucks! Cancer affects people at all ages with the risk for most types increasing with age. Once diagnosed, cancer is usually treated with a combination of surgery, chemotherapy, and radiotherapy. The prognosis of cancer patients is most influenced by the type of cancer, as well as the stage, or extent of the disease.

My brother called in April with what he said was "moderately bad news". His moderately bad news turned out to be the worse kind to have. Cancer.........a relatively rare form of cancer, esophageal cancer. Esophageal cancer has long been considered one of the deadliest malignancies in fact it is the sixth most common cause of cancer-related death.
His prognosis did not look good from the beginning, there is no cure and there is limited treatment once a patient reaches the third stage, which is the stage John was at when he was diagnosed. He did not have the risk factors, he did not have, (which is common with this form of cancer), many symptoms so it seemed to blindside us with the extent of damage. How can a man look and act healthy until the cancer has progressed so far that a Dr visit results in such a dismal prognosis.
John is in his final stage of life, word will come at any time. His was my best friend while we were growing up, even though we did fight on occasion. We have lived

far apart for the last 30 years, but I always knew he would be there is I ever needed anything. He could fix or build just about anything as all of his neighbors and co workers can attest to. Most of his neighbors have remodeled houses, furniture built, and appliances or car repaired/rebuilt by his hand.
His co workers said they did not know when or even if they can find anyone that can fix things like John could. He was so good at building
anything that he finally had to come up with a saying, "It will be very expensive, very difficult to make, and I can't guarantee the results". I have used that one every now and then myself.
He is loved by many people!
Cancer Sucks!

It is my greatest wish that some day there will be a cure for ALL cancer. We are not the only family that this disease has devastated and sadly we will not be the last.